Ahh, mom life with twins…Life with a 3-month-old set of twins, young kids, and a teenager is loud, busy, and often unpredictable. Some days feel like pure survival mode. But over the past few months, I’ve found a few simple things that make daily life feel more manageable — not perfect, just easier.
None of this is groundbreaking. It’s just what’s working for us in this season, and sometimes that’s exactly what we need.
1. A Very Basic Morning Routine (Just for Me)
Before the chaos fully kicks in, I take about five minutes to myself. That’s it.
I wash my face, put on some skincare, maybe a CC cream, and mascara. Most days, I live in cozy clothes, but I try to make sure I’m dressed in something I wouldn’t be embarrassed to answer the door in. It’s more about feeling human than it is looking put together. I turn on the coffee pot, take my apple cider vinegar + cayenne pepper shot, down some electrolytes, and give myself a tiny boost before the day takes over. It’s a small habit, but it sets the tone for everything else.
2. Simplifying Mornings for the “Big Kids.”
Mornings are smoother when we remove as many decisions as possible.
The kids get breakfast and are well-nourished before school; kindergarten and pre-k mornings move fast. Outfits are laid out the night before at bedtime, which saves time, stress, and unnecessary power struggles, especially if the babies need to be fed while I’m trying to get everyone dressed and ready.
Mom life with twins is not about running a tight ship; it’s about reducing chaos where we can.
3. Prioritizing Protein for Me
After school drop-off, I make sure I eat a protein-rich breakfast. Most days it’s just plain scrambled eggs with a little grass-fed butter.
It’s simple, but it keeps my energy steady and supports recovery postpartum — especially with twins. Skipping meals only makes the day harder, because I’ll end up feeling shaky and weird, so this has become a non-negotiable for me.
4. Using Nap Time with Intention (Not Perfection)
Nap time is when I try to reset the house just enough to avoid a total disaster later.
I’ll pretend I’m on Supermarket Sweep and see how quickly I can knock things off my list. I wash and prep bottles, swap laundry, run the vacuum, or tidy high-traffic areas. The goal isn’t a spotless house; it’s keeping things somewhat in order so evenings don’t feel overwhelming.
Doing some of it throughout the day makes nights feel calmer for everyone.
5. Consistent Bedtimes + Letting Go of Perfection
Bedtime routines are essential in our house.
The twins follow a simple routine: bathtime, bottle, and a book. The 4- and 5-year-olds get baths, pajamas, and either a book or a few minutes of a movie. Everyone is usually in bed by 8:00–8:15 on school nights, with a little more flexibility on weekends. Obviously, there are special occasion exceptions… we roll with the punches on those days/nights and try to hop back into our rhythm the next day.
Once the kids are settled, the kitchen is cleaned up, and nighttime bottles are made, I take a shower. Daily showers are nonnegotiable. It’s my signal that the day is officially over.
We rarely make evening plans outside of the kids’ activities like basketball games, dance class, or t-ball. This season calls for early nights and predictable rhythms.
At the same time, I’m learning to let some mess exist. I remind myself how quickly each phase passes, and that one day our house won’t feel this full or busy. I try not to wish time away, even on the hard days, and instead soak in what this season is while we’re in it.
6. Making Time for Our Relationship
Something I’ve become more intentional about lately is protecting time for my relationship.
After the kids are in bed, we try to put our phones down for a few minutes, not every night or for all of the night, but enough to reconnect. Sometimes that looks like watching a show together, other nights it’s just scrolling through funny videos and laughing together, or simply sitting and talking.
We remind ourselves that we are what started this family, and one day, we’ll be what’s left when the kids are grown and gone. This season is busy and exhausting, but it’s also important to “water our lawn” and stay connected, even in small ways.
Mom Life With Twins Note on Movement, Body Image, and Grace
I try to fit in 20–30-minute workouts during nap time 4–6 days a week when possible. Nothing extreme, just simple, effective movements that work multiple muscle groups at once. Everything I do can be done at home with dumbbells or kettlebells. You can grab a full dumbbell set like this one on Amazon or these kettlebells and have pretty much all the basic supplies you need to build a healthy, fit body.
Some of my go-to compound movements include:
- squats
- deadlifts
- lunges
- shoulder presses
- rows
These give me the most bang for my buck when time is limited.
I also walk when I can, though between kids and housework, I get a lot of steps naturally throughout the day.
I’ve been below my pre-pregnancy weight for several weeks now, but my body composition is definitely different, and I’m learning to accept that. I’ve always struggled with body image, so giving myself grace doesn’t come easily. It’s hard not to look in the mirror and point out all of my imperfections. But I’m growing through it.
This body has carried and birthed four children, including twins. It’s allowed to look different. Healing, strength, and confidence don’t have to happen on a deadline.
This season isn’t about doing everything right. It’s about finding small rhythms that make life feel steadier, and trusting that even the hardest days are temporary. Mom life with twins brings a level of busyness that’s hard to explain unless you’re living it.
If you’re an expecting or new twin mom and want to be as prepared as possible for mom life with twins, check out my post on newborn & infant twin essentials here: https://mommode247.com/twin-mom-must-haves-newborn-infant/
Frequently Asked Questions
How do you manage mom life with twins and young kids?
By keeping routines simple, setting realistic expectations, and focusing on what truly supports daily life instead of perfection.
What routines help most during the postpartum season?
Consistent bedtimes, protein-rich meals, short workouts, and letting go of unnecessary pressure make the biggest difference.
If this season feels familiar, I’d love to hear what’s helping you right now. Leave a comment below or ask a question — you’re not alone in this.
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